Committed to Cloth, but….

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Continuum Family side snap training pants

Cloth diapers. Cute. Eco-friendly. The frugal choice.

I love cloth diapers. Like baby slings, I can see how easy it is to slip into addiction, wanting to collect a wide range of prints, brands and styles. Modern cloth diapers are both stylish and functional; gone are the days of pins and plastic pants, we now have PUL and Velcro.

Everyone chooses cloth for different reasons. I committed myself to cloth diapering when my first was born because it seemed to make sense health-wise, for the child and the planet. I found myself doing hours of research online, weighing all of my choices. Should I go for natural fibers or synthetics? Prefolds, pockets or all-in-ones? Snaps or Velcro or Snappis? How well does a one-size diaper really fit? I embraced all the choices available for me with joy.

I tried a number of cloth diaper companies, getting a few of various styles. As my daughter grew and changed, so did our diapering needs. Continuum Family had the smallest diapers with snaps I could find (had a tiny first child and wanted to practice EC–elimination communication), and I fell in love with them for a long while. The Little Beetle wool covers from Better for Babies (who have now closed up shop) were a great nighttime choice for a time. By then we were really getting somewhere with EC, so we got a couple of Ecapants training pants through EC Wear. We even had her in prefolds with a prefold belt at one point. The longest lasting favorite, aside from the Continuum Family in the pictures, were the Imse Vimse wool covers.

Over time, I learned firsthand the stinky side of cloth diapers:

  • Continuum Family side snap training pants

    Cloth diapers are picky about what they want to be washed in.

  • Cloth diapers are like toddlers in that they will smell louder and louder till they get their way.
  • Cloth diapers prefer to take up a lot of room in a bag rather than share space with snacks, wipes, and spare clothes — it’s called a diaper bag for a reason.
  • Cloth diapers don’t wash themselves.
  • Cloth diapers flatter (or pinch!) each baby differently.

Still, I travelled happily along cloth diapering journey for well over a year, knowing I made the right choice, thinking there would never be a day…

Fast forward to the present.

Goodbye Better for Babies....

After months of battling ammonia diapers and irritated skin, I caved and got disposables for my daughter. They ended up not causing her the rashes that folks worry about with disposables. It was in this way that I found myself staring at the last diapers in the package wondering if I should get more. I ended up getting her some basic prefolds and Flip diaper covers, thinking I could use them with the second baby.

I found myself learning all over again with my son who is shaped completely differently from my daughter. My cutest of cute cloth diaper covers with prefolds leaked every time because he is too small yet and the prefolds would scootch down and scrunch up. I went to the all-in-one cloth diapers my daughter had used, but then we got hit with thrush and the wet fabric on his skin seemed to be on the side of the yeast. When my washer broke for a week and a half, to top it all off, I turned to disposables.

It was during this time that I realized that disposables have advantages I hadn’t considered.

  • Disposables don’t need to be washed.
  • Disposables are compact.
  • Disposables give a trim bum line.
  • Disposables come in a wider range of sizes for a more accurate fit.

Some parents use disposables to handle the sticky, staining meconium in the earliest newborn days before switching to cloth diapers. Some parents use disposables at night and cloth diaper during the day. Many parents find disposables more convenient during travel. Alternate caregivers might find disposables easier or more familiar. Thankfully, there are some brands that leave out the chemicals, dyes, perfumes and other unhealthy stuff.

Continuum Family pull up training pants

Honestly, I can now understand the allure of disposables.

In the end, though, cloth diapers are worth any special thought and care required. Perhaps the struggle is precisely what creates loyal cloth diaper users. What piece of plastic could accomplish that?

Despite any inconvenience, I persist in my cloth diapering. I have got my son back in plain prefolds (size up, big guy!) and a Snappi — simplest and best yet. I’m working on my daughter’s skin health so we’re mostly diaper and pants free (less accidents now!) with disposables at night. Trying to figure out what would be a good move for her to pull down on her own. The search for the next cloth diaper solution continues….

Yes, I may have strayed to disposables, but I remain committed to cloth.

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23 responses to this post.

  1. Ah, the diaper struggles! Good for you for staying open to various options and ultimately committing to the cloth that you were most comfortable with! I have never used cloth- which actually shocks me given the others parenting choices I have made, but I really wish I had.

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  2. It makes perfect sense to me to explore other options when what you’re using isn’t working for you! I’m glad to hear the skin issues you were working through have resolved.

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  3. Oh those tricky diapering waters. I struggled myself and even though I’m a cloth diaper consultant I too have used ‘sposies in times of desperation or need – so no judgment from me here. We are trying out the flip trainers with my potty learner and so far I like them. I haven’t really taken the training pant plunge though and with the next one on their way I feel like I’m diving back in and wondering if my stash is up to fluff.

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  4. Oh my gosh – I love your comparison of CDs to toddlers – hilarious!! And I’m the same way – I see the lure of the sposies, and we use them occasionally, but I’m committed to cloth for the long haul 🙂

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  5. […] Committed to Cloth, but… — Sheila at A Living Family affirms her love of cloth diapering, despite the draw of disposables. […]

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  6. […] Committed to Cloth, but… — Sheila at A Living Family affirms her love of cloth diapering, despite the draw of disposables. […]

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  7. […] Committed to Cloth, but… — Sheila at A Living Family affirms her love of cloth diapering, despite the draw of disposables. […]

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  11. […] Committed to Cloth, but… — Sheila at A Living Family affirms her love of cloth diapering, despite the draw of disposables. […]

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  13. For very similar reasons we alternate between cloth and disposable also. I like having the flexibility and not being so rigid about that part of our life. We also use elimination communication which helps to cut down on the need at all, although I am in no way rigid about that either!

    Thank you for the lovely comparison. 🙂

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  14. […] Committed to Cloth, but… — Sheila at A Living Family affirms her love of cloth diapering, despite the draw of disposables. […]

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  15. […] Committed to Cloth, but… — Sheila at A Living Family affirms her love of cloth diapering, despite the draw of disposables. […]

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  16. […] Committed to Cloth, but… — Sheila at A Living Family affirms her love of cloth diapering, despite the draw of disposables. […]

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  17. very true, haha comparing cloth to toddlers is oh so hilarious!!!

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  18. Posted by Rachel @ Lautaret Bohemiet on February 27, 2012 at 9:48 pm

    You have more stamina than me! I recently gave up on cloth. If my skinny little tot puts on some weight and stops leaking with EVERY SINGLE ONE WE TRY, I may go back. This post was inspiring and encouraging… I just don’t know if I have it in me to buy any more diapers that don’t work for my little dude.

    Great persistence, and great post!

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  19. That’s awesome! We so couldn’t hack it but I loooove cloth diapers for all the reasons you describe 🙂

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  20. Posted by Laura on February 29, 2012 at 6:32 am

    I was going to cloth diaper exclusively, but instead “only” use them for the middle of the journey.

    The first 3-4 months, when my big guys still fit in the ones with the “hey, I been peed in!” line (ack the chemicals!) and we’re most sleep deprived, I use those.

    And around two years, my older one sized out of our one-size stash, and I couldn’t find anything training-pant-like that fit him and could be stuffed enough to handle overnights. So, it was back to disposables (but at least greener than the early set).

    #2 is about to be switched to cloth – maybe by the time he needs training pants, I’ll find something that works.

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  21. Thanks for the comment love, folks! I think the hardest thing for me is that every baby is different and each stage can be different, too. It’s so hard to know ahead of time what will work for this baby at this time. I know it’s best to buy a few styles and see which one works before buying a set of something, but I have a hard time thinking about only having that one diaper that I like and a bunch I don’t. Le sigh….it’s just not as simple as it seems or sounds or is for some folks.

    Thanks for reading and sharing your experiences!
    ~sheila

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  22. Thanks for all the suggestions of EC-friendly bum-wear!

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  23. […] Committed to Cloth, but… — Sheila at A Living Family affirms her love of cloth diapering, despite the draw of disposables. […]

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